What Is A Frienemy

1.)A "toxic" person who poses as a friend but subconsciously or consciously wishes you harm.

2.)A person who you treat and whom treats you as a friendbut if they are given a chance would "cut your throat" or get one over on you/put themselves first if it would benifit themselves, or they would gain an advantage over you. Similar to an enemy.

3.)An enemy who uses friendship to conceal their attacks.

4.)A low self-esteemed person who gets close to others for social gain, money,to steal.

5.)A enemy disguised as an friend; an enemy pretending to be a friend

6.)Someone who's guts you hate allconsumingly and bitterly but with which you also have highly fascinating and fulfilling conversations with.

7.)The type of "friend" whose words or actions bring you down.(whether you realize it as intentional or not) The type of friend you ought to cut off but don't cuz they're nice good you've had good times with them. U know they're good people that you can count on to bring you down again sometime in the near future.The friend you may or may not have cornered about their quicksand like ways and keep around because "its in the past"...and so was one minute ago. The person that will continue to bring you down until you demand better for yourself.

8.)A "friend" a "bad friend" who cares only about themselves. A friend who gets their way no matter the cost, and who they step on along the way. One might stay in a "frenemy" situation because they are fearful of this person. Also known as a toxic friendship.

Long story short a frienemy is a person with whom you may have a lot of fun and/or a lot in common, who also has a vile and random dark side. These relationships are worth doing a cost/benefit analysis on. Also, limiting relationships with frenemies to non-SO relationships is a must. Why? Because it’s ultimately all about them after all, and you will need to be in a position to get away from them for indefinite periods of time.  If this happens, don‘t expect everyone to get it—some will wonder why this person enrages you so much and others will wonder what you see in them.It is recommended for your own safety/sanity that you limit yourself to one frenemy at any given time in your life. I personaly think if you have one ride yourself. Life is to short to waste on fake people with fake intentions and ulterior motives.Surround yourself with love and nourishment and do not allow the creation of negativity in your environment.

Advice to a friend

We all mess up, I do daily sometimes all day and I hope when I do people forgive me with the same measure I forgive them. Remember no one can upset you or make you unhappy without your permission. You can't control what people do but you can control how you react. You can't let people in life bother you. There will always be someone there more than happy to knock you down and steal your happiness. Don't ever let them. No matter who they are. God didn't put you on this earth to be unhappy. The best way to deal with them is just be nice. That is the very best cure for a jerk. A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort ;~) I promise!!!!! 

We all get what we give

We all get what we give. I never seek to get even with anyone, EVER! I know God's justice is far better than mine could ever be. I have faith in him & those I love. And I know those meant to be in my life will always be in my life. I'm in my thirties not my twenties I don't buy into these high school games. I know everything in life happens for a reason & even in tough spots keep safe in my heart that God always has my best interest at heart. I stay in his light & everything will work out for the best. The right thing is far from the most popular & sometimes a very hard lonely path. I'm true to my heart. And I love those around me enough to make them be true to theirs! Part of loving yourself means accepting every part of your you, the light and the dark. We are a wonderful amalgamation of love, spirit, thoughts, emotions, good habits, bad habits, personality quarks, dreams and intentions. To deny any part of that is to deny the miracle that is you. Freedom and happiness come when you give up the illusion of trying to be perfect so you can finally just be yourself. I am myself always! Those that love me love that! Those that truly love me I don't need to worry about they will always be there when the dust settles from a storm. Those who I can't see simply weren't meant to be!

What life's about.

Life isn't about keeping score. It's not about how many people call you and it's not about who you've known, know now, or haven't known at all. It isn't about who you've kissed, what you drive, or how much money you make. It's not about your shoes, bags or your hair or the color of your skin or where you live or go to church. In fact, it's not about status, money, clothes, or sexuality. Life isn't about if you have lots of friends, or if you are alone, and it's not about how accepted or unaccepted you are. Life just isn't about that. But life is about who you love and who you hurt. It's about how you feel about yourself. It's about trust, happiness, and compassion. Life is about avoiding jealousy, overcoming ignorance, and building confidence. It's about what you say and what you mean. It's about seeing people for who they are and not what they have. Most of all, it is about choosing to use your life to touch someone else's in a way that could never have been achieved otherwise. These choices are what life's about.

I know that the end do not justify the means. Because there are no ends, there are only means.

I know that the end do not justify the means. Because there are no ends, there are only means. Life carries me from unknown to unknown. Each moment is filled with this thrilling mystery. I don't know where I came from nor where I am going. But I am not here by chance. And I am overjoyed by surprises and excited by landscapes that I have never seen before. I often feel afraid, but that is normal. I make many, many mistakes, more than I can count, but I cant waste my time blaming myself for my rash actions nor do spend my life forgiving myself for all the wrong I have done doing that would never set me back on my right path. My bad decisions left me scars. I'm proud of the scars in my soul. They remind me that I have an intense life. I love life and love always transforms

Its only begun

The thing about life that I've learned is that you're going to get hurt. You're going to have emotional nights and cry yourself to sleep for hours. You're going to suffer some kind of heartbreak, some kind of loss. But you will also have those moments where you heal. Those moments are the best. You feel like your smile for the first time again. You feel like you're alive again. Life just.. restarts

Never give up on those you love & never give up on yourself!

Life is a beautiful journey full of ups & downs. Its a high price we pay sometimes for our life experiences. Don’t ever take experiences for granted. The things we learn the greatest lessons from are most often not the moments of perfection. Temporary pain, temporal distractions & bad choices can still lead to long term happiness. If we only search inside ourselves & find the lessons meant to be learned. There's a high price to pay to become our absolute best & find true joy! The key is to never give up, never give up on your dreams, never give up on those you love & never give up on yourself!