Tuesday, September 14, 2010

What Is A Frienemy

1.)A "toxic" person who poses as a friend but subconsciously or consciously wishes you harm.

2.)A person who you treat and whom treats you as a friendbut if they are given a chance would "cut your throat" or get one over on you/put themselves first if it would benifit themselves, or they would gain an advantage over you. Similar to an enemy.

3.)An enemy who uses friendship to conceal their attacks.

4.)A low self-esteemed person who gets close to others for social gain, money,to steal.

5.)A enemy disguised as an friend; an enemy pretending to be a friend

6.)Someone who's guts you hate allconsumingly and bitterly but with which you also have highly fascinating and fulfilling conversations with.

7.)The type of "friend" whose words or actions bring you down.(whether you realize it as intentional or not) The type of friend you ought to cut off but don't cuz they're nice good you've had good times with them. U know they're good people that you can count on to bring you down again sometime in the near future.The friend you may or may not have cornered about their quicksand like ways and keep around because "its in the past"...and so was one minute ago. The person that will continue to bring you down until you demand better for yourself.

8.)A "friend" a "bad friend" who cares only about themselves. A friend who gets their way no matter the cost, and who they step on along the way. One might stay in a "frenemy" situation because they are fearful of this person. Also known as a toxic friendship.

Long story short a frienemy is a person with whom you may have a lot of fun and/or a lot in common, who also has a vile and random dark side. These relationships are worth doing a cost/benefit analysis on. Also, limiting relationships with frenemies to non-SO relationships is a must. Why? Because it’s ultimately all about them after all, and you will need to be in a position to get away from them for indefinite periods of time.  If this happens, don‘t expect everyone to get it—some will wonder why this person enrages you so much and others will wonder what you see in them.It is recommended for your own safety/sanity that you limit yourself to one frenemy at any given time in your life. I personaly think if you have one ride yourself. Life is to short to waste on fake people with fake intentions and ulterior motives.Surround yourself with love and nourishment and do not allow the creation of negativity in your environment.